Swedish family with two women in sight. "Swedish family": what is it like in a bitter light and for what term has become a symbol of release? About those who think children

Everything is possible at the 21st century. For hours, if you talk about democracy, freedom of choice, parity of articles, the devil has gone to the natural-family foundations. The axis of mi zvikli, so mom + tato + i = happy, but not, don't expect.

We would like you to tell me the story about two Swedish gay couples, who were "home-grown" and became dad. Someone's history can be shocked and viciously ambiguous, or read it to everyone!

Swedish family

About myself

I grew up in the suvorian church family, my father, having borrowed to finish his temple in a Swedish church, we spent a lot of time. Until nineteen rockies, I didn’t think about my homosexuality. Eighteen or seventeen have one boyfriend, and then another. Not those things, I was in the grip of all kinds of people, but I didn’t particularly look at the girls. Zagalom, I have been singed, but I'm straight.

About knowledge with the squad

I learned about my maybut squad in college, in literary courses. Vona immediately honored me. I want her to have a new boyfriend, and I’m a big girl. Ale yakas chemіya mіzh us vіnikla vіdrazu. I didn’t bother with the first croc, so I didn’t want to get involved in those stosunki. I didn’t make a mistake, I’m befitting. After our first kiss, she threw her boyfriend, and they began to play. The first children lived separately, and later, if they entered the university, they went to school. Todi and I became aware of the fathers and older sisters in being a lesbian. The novina sisters were not shocked, hocha, slyly, the stench was booing. Daddy, yak is not wonderful, they pidtrimal me, they said that I will love like this, yak me є. The price was even worse, if they were not even closer. The song of the rose and the stench didn't turn out to be bigger than that. Me to be built, they still have a wickedness to the deyaku unhappiness, I want my maybutnyi squad to smell at once with sympathy.

About living

We resigned to life at once in a small university place at the Shvetsia Pivdenny. Visiting, not in Stockholm, where we traveled in peace, nor in small places, bringing life to life, I did not see the lack of tolerance. I want to see it often. For example, according to the Swedish laws, a young couple, a yaka, lives at the same time (they call themselves sambo. - Ed. Note). You can also make material help for knowing or buying a living room. Oskil mi from my village already lived at the same time officially and were registered for the same address, we filed documents for rejection of a subsidy. I got a call from a woman from a social welfare and from an occasional friend, as well as a few friends, we should have a less subsidy. I said that I’m not friends and warehouses in romantic hairstyles. The lady of the trocha hesitated, and then said: "I am intelligent, good." Help on livelihoods was taken out in general, as heterosexual bets. “Partnership” was established by us in 1999, which is also what it was called. Already in 2001, once the parliament made the gay whores up to the point, we submitted a new application, and our partnership got the status of a whore. Todi my squad took my nickname. We thought they should forgive everything, but they told us everywhere to clarify that they were not sisters. Tim is bigger at my nickname.

About the nation of children

If they became friends, they had a little fun, asked for some of their close relatives and a few friends. Everything went modestly, but I spend the whole day alone with those who have lived most of my life. Already on the cob of our hundred -sunks we knew what mothers would like to have children. At Shvetsia, behind my warnings, a cult was roiled for yak. You have become friends - it is not important, one-step is not a matter of any kind, - everything is about to turn around, if you are trying to have children. And as long as there is one child in the family, everyone will fix it for you, if you already have another one. We didn’t know a handful of people, as a matter of fact, so they didn’t look at the option of a traditional retreat, so that sex with a man wasn’t looked at. The first and second squads wanted the people according to the child.

We went for a consultation at RFSL (just like a Swedish LGBT organization, I need help LGBT. - Ed. Note). We knew that it was possible to use an alternative method. We were given brochures about those that are correct and hygienic. Require bulo virіshity nutrition with sperm donation. Just to know the donor is such an option for us. We wanted, who are biological dad, but also a gay couple, who might have become involved in children and wanted to be spirited. The Internet was not so widened, but they were respected for the beautifully old-fashioned way - they gave a run-down in a great LGBT newspaper. A number of choloviks sounded on a new one, and Tommy and Mikael were vibrating. The stench has been honored to us: like mi, the stench was stored in the mizzy shlyubi. We were more beautiful, we went on a cruise at once for a couple of days. Necessary analyzes were created for our smell.

I vvazhayu, but we were spared by the dads: the stench, which was unimportant to those at once, was separated (we had a 14-year-old whore, the stench was 17 years old), Tommy and Mikael took part with us. As a result of our knowledge, we virishili, that I will bring the child to Mikke, and my squad - to Tommy, and I will raise the people of the first. I had a miraculous boy, after two fate my squad gave birth to Tommy dvchinka.

About the cellar separation

If we have children, they bought them great budinok... Two children lived in a month with us, and then two children lived with us. Right after the cob, we started seeing children and didn’t get used to it, as the stench was born. For them, my grievances are reference mothers, Tommy and Mikke stinks can be brought in by their reference fathers. Children in the course, for the dermal one they have a biological mother and a biological father: my sin knows, that I am a biological mother, and Mikke is a biological father, and Katharina knows, and Tommy is my biological father mater. Protect me, you may call it mom. We all need to go to Batkivske Zbori before school. I don’t get to school with a rapt until midnight, where’s my squad from kimos iz batkiv. If the kolishnya can't go to my darling on the Fatherland’s zbori, then I go with Mikke or Tommy. All teachers know what it is for us. True, because of that, both Tommy and Mikke parted, everything became easier. In the judgment, the decision was taken that all of them in the rural world have the right to be with children and take part in their lives. Only all of us still need home about the graph, if and how children live with a skin dad. Sphatku buv is a madhouse. For both men and women, as it is for both fathers, it was important to spilkuvatisya writing for separation. They didn’t want to, but the price was added to the children. Wanting, slyly, they all saw the stench. Unpretentious for every junior century (synovi - 11 rocky, dontsi - 9), know the stench and reason. I was very worried about the separation, as if honestly, the nobility did not want anything about the new hundredths of my coli. Tim is bigger than I, I was alone, and the thought about those who showed up at the kolishny squad, was unbearable for me. Allegedly, the children came to me and asked me that they had a new friend, but they went to the water park at once, telling them to be patient and not showing me what I was seeing. However, my daughter bachila, as I am worried, and fed: “Mom, maybe we could live three together: you, mother and friend? Would it be good for you? »I saw that it wasn’t going to be.

About the pozminny father

Now children live by the skin of us. For example, on the wicked stench I get lost at Mikke's, then from Monday to Friday - my cherga. I pick up all Monday's injuries from schools and take a permit for robots for several days, or just go with the robots earlier. Let's take it on Friday evenings from the schools and take Tommy and so far. My children spend less than one time on weekends and once - on weekdays. І so - for the skin s chotiroh dad. True, Tommy is the one to drive. You can write to all of us in a quick way: "I am going to Spain on the offensive, who can take the children to me?" I'm especially fiddling. For if I say so, we’ll come for the children’s lies, and then, as a result, come in the evening. And we are sitting all day long and cheekamo, if we come. Let me not in screaming Especially, I am with a large squad, alley for the whole hour on the call and additional assistance is only one to one. As soon as I get sick from the children, all my fathers must be guilty of being in the course, the nobility should get ready, and stock up on some pills if you come and take the children.

On the saint for a visit Rizdva abo Midsummer (The day of the song, which means Swedes. - Ed.) Kozhen from us take the children home for two days. For an hour, we have about two and a half years for the skin, just by the way with the children. Unimportant to those, I still love both children, for me all is singular. I won't show children only. True, if the sin had been drunk to the likarna with a broken arm, the likar rang my coli. We have a name and earlier one, and in the documents of children I am a contact person, in which I am won. I called back the doctor and asked for a new call from the drive, so I’m my biological mother.

About Vidnosini on Robots

I am a social worker. On robots, everything is in the course of my organization, I don't see anyone else. At my center, daddy daddy children with special features of development. I myself conduct a lot of inquiries, consult fathers, for example, children with Down syndrome.

It’s like a family has turned up to us, how to be built up from two mothers, who have a child with a serious brain injury... The stench was getting out of the way, and we needed to lead the right way, so all the right children with special health shows will be treated to us. First, they discussed it at the robot, as if it were a child, since the price was one-step. As if in any kind of organization, in our robots heterosexuals are absolutely great. I said todi: "Let me hang out, I still may be able to see it, as I myself have been in love with this woman." And nothing, the colleagues do not show their eyes.

About those who think children

I am often disagreeable, our children will be happy, because they have a huge family and two fathers. Honestly, I don’t know. I used to see a lot of things, so bachit children are skinny day. Ale, I made peace with Tim, as we have everything vashtovanny. They often feed us: “I befitting you to torment children with constant journeys? Aje oh, melodiously, run the whole hour from the booth to the booths. " We were fed with children, as they live. Smell it seems: “We are so, we are having fun, we have a great family and two fathers to replace - as many as four! And the axis to you yourself, melodiously, everything is no tighter, so yak we parted. " Children are calmly placed before they have two mothers and two tats, so they don’t have to feed the same pages about those who have gone so far. I chula, like the stench was explained to friends, how they both loved one and wanted, but they might have children, like everyone else. As for the stench, they knew two maybutnіkh tats and took them from them, but they didn’t pop at the same time with the tatami tatami, but these children were born. That stench was born in a way. Surely, children hear a story with wide open mouths. For an hour I will forget about those who are not interested in him, those who have got their children from them. Think only: if the stench, for example, you want to start your own family, then not two fathers will come to the party before them, but four, but even more than one family. And as soon as we have a new partner for the skin, then we will go, well, there will be a cholovik. Leave everything else uncorrupted, for all the people skidamosya on the days of the people of the children, for example, take on the purchase of a bag-embellishment, there is a cake, there is a gift for іgri. As a matter of fact, it is possible for them to accept it, and they will pay for it on a social basis.

It’s not so harsh to feed me: “Do you think your children are natural? And why, how's your sin virosta і zrozumіє, how's wien - gay? »Changes in the food chain are not easy. Obviously, for my children the very fact of being visible in the suspension of homosexuality is not extraordinary. If only with Katarina, you want to go to the lads, I want you, you know, only nine rockies, leave early to talk. Jonas tsіkavitsya vіvchatki. As a matter of fact, I’m better off for the will b, so the children will bully the traditional oriєntatsiyi. I didn’t want to, so the stench passed into life through those folds, which were brought to me. To navigate in our suspension, as one of the most tolerant, being gay and lesbian more important, less natural.

About Babus and Didus

Lіtnі kanіkulі kids planuєmo spіlnі with grannies and dіdusіyіnіh dadіv, so I might want to pacify onuks. True, be sure to go not often, not to Rizdvo, for winter and summer canyons. Whole litas, shvidshe for everything, go to daddy Mikke at the pivnich Shvetsiya, they have a great summer house of the lake. Vin perekonly asking us to stay with the graph so that the children in linen walked with him. With my daddy, like daddy of my kolishny squad, our children rarely get along, so daddy live far from Stockholm. If I vibrate until the last few days, then I wake up in those days, if I have children, then my dad might want to understand them. Vzagal, in Switzerland, it is not even accepted to take babus and diduses from vikhovannya onuks, or to play them on a little with them. Svychayno, happy evening, if the whole homeland is going, - the price is holy. By and large, we didn’t get much used to the other mother, they couldn’t be convinced to whom they could take the children to themselves on their trips and take them to their fathers. The result is homely, but on Saturday I am taking the children to my fathers, then during the week I carry them to my fathers. And on Rizdvo itself, all the daddy get out at once, so daddy Mikke and Tommy come, for the stench to live in Stockholm. Babus and children will always bathe all their children and onuks as gifts at Rizdvo. Ale vikhovuvati children of the dad in Switzerland vvazhayut for beautiful themselves. For example, if one is a father, then the other (not importantly, the cholovik tse chi woman) can take the allowance at a glance after the child. Until seven rockyv child to walk in baby cage, De z him will be engaged until six or seven in the evening. At the same time, a working day at most is set to end in chotiri-five years.

All the names of the bully changes to the heroine's end.

Text: Olena Krivov'yaz

Іlustratsії: Masha Shishova

Swedish family

Yaka growth between a bird and a Swede?

A striba bird is from a bottle to a bottle, and a Swede is from a Swede to a Swedish.

From archives of the Vermensky radio

Varto in any company to imovity the phrase "Swedish family", as you can fix everything in a meaningful way, laughing at the same time, the understanding means a bit of unconventional for us, the family is not ordinary for us, because freedom in sexual contacts is not possible. Ale, scho tsikavo, the word "Swedish family" is learned from French, American, English, Australian presi and not to learn from Scandinavian: Swedish, Danish, Norwegian. It is impertinent, for which the shape of the lovers of the common bull is so named, and for the right, the Swedes are a puritanical and traditionalist, and in the Scandinavian regions there is a "Swedish family" mind, a good homeland.

Volodymyr Shakhidzhanyan, in his book "1001 meals about CE", writes: "But having invented a legend, none of the Swedish family is a family, but with one team of two warriors, or with two men, one team, or seven of two and two women, all living at the same time and children of the country?

I nourished the Swedes, and the stench drooped my eyebrows, frowned, rehearsed, not razmiyuchi, but laughed: “So, so, so in Russia to say, but everything is fine with us. A cholovik may have a kohan, and a squad may have a kohan. Ale schob sіm'єyu ... I schob vvazhali zvichnoy right and not condemned by suspension - this is not booby. Zvychano, the skin is alive, as you like, if the skin head in our land has one squad, and the skin squad has one cholovik. Niyakikh "Swedish families". Gruppensex - buvaє. Ale, naskіlki us vіdomo, tse є і you. Navpaki, in Switzerland they are actively engaged in sexual wickedness and pursuing a line to monogamy, to individual love. So, "Swedish sіm'ya" - tse myth. And group sex is the reality. "

Tsikavo, for statistics, the Swedish capital Stockholm is the first place in Europe for a number of people who live alone - about 70% of the capital's population (in another place - Amsterdam). Often, you can find family bets, as children may be, and are involved in painting the life of your skin near your apartment. It's already here "Swedish family".

The eyewitnesses are aware of the fact that couples hang out on Moscow streets and in some clubs you can play more often, not on Swedish ones.

And when there are “boisterous sixties”, the Swedish psychologist Oke Helström means: “And the revolution is not less sexy than it is. The wake up, won the people with a new admonition, like the stench now, with success, stagnate in the family life. Most Swedes this year may be aware of the technology of sex, erogenous zones, I know how to be protected from venereal diseases, unique vaginosities. Before speech, the number of abortions is minimal. Podlitki already at 10-11 rocky were informed about the use and methods of contraception and not to get rid of it.

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